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Business and Social DynamicsThe Power of Presence In ancient indigenous societies, shamans recognized “presence” as one of the three universal
powers. Presence was defined by these ancients as: choosing to be present and visible, showing up energetically, and bringing forward all four of the intelligences: mental, physical, emotional, and spiritual. When a person embodies the power of presence, he or she possesses “big medicine,” and is able to empower and inspire others.
Emotional Intelligence
Interest in others. The absolute essence of likability, this skill makes people feel great about themselves and equally great about you. Knack for Social Fine Points. Likable people usually have some social savvy, are able to handle themselves with ease in business and social situations. Topics covered: Attitude. People who are positive and upbeat, project self-confidence, take responsibility for their actions, and don’t blame or condemn others, garner respect—and are more likable. Believability. The element of believability—or credibility—is important because people can’t like you if they don’t believe you. Little things. There are dozens of traits and qualities that enhance likability—everything from being accountable for your actions to writing a note of appreciation. Thirty-five things that make others think more highly of you. Empathy. Being able to see others’ point of view, relate to them and understand them enables you to effectively lead and motivate. Taking the time to look at things from their point of view can diffuse tensions, staving off the potential for dislike that can result from unresolved conflict. |
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